Personally, I feel that you guys should stop playing games with each other. Each time you’ve done that in the past, you’ve made her more and more unsure of you and getting back together because the trust keeps getting broken. This could be why she’s particularly hot and cold towards you this time around.

If you do want her back, I suggest having an honest and open conversation with her about this and convince her (with your actions) that you’re willing to do what it takes to win her back.

I am 17. My ex and i were together for more than 18 months. But i made the biggest mistake in my life by cheating on him. I made out with my former ex while i was drunk. I broke his heart and i am ashamed of myself. I really want him back as i love him more than anything.Do i even deserve another chance? And can things come back to normal even if we get back?Will he be loyal to me again?

People make mistakes from time to time, I’m not saying that what you did was justifiable but it has happened. From here on out, you deserving a second chance is entirely up to you and how you are able to convince him that you’re sorry and get him to forgive you.

Unfortunately, if he still insists on not coming back or refusing to talk to you, you’re left with only two options: continue no contact for a prolonged period or walk away.

At least on your end, if you’re really in love with her, you have to stop flirting around and if you know you’re going to get bored again some time into the relationship, you shouldn’t go back into it

I’m 17 and I betrayed my boyfriend I didn’t sleep with anyone or anything physical when it Came to me cheating, but I was very flirtatious and met one guy at a park nothing happened but he was very upset.